Read a great post
here about your marriage being a sanctuary, "The trip back to the garden of delight is always a trip back to sanctuary. We find our way back to a safe place where we can be vulnerable and unafraid, back to the place where we can be naked and not ashamed."
"No man needs a castle when he has a sanctuary."
What a great goal to strive for, to make our homes and our marriages a place of sanctuary.